Why we do daylight savings again? I hate time changes…..
Rants
Why I don’t care for Cesar Milan
This post has been building for a while….so sorry if it turns into a rant.
Now, before I get started, I’m not saying that all of what CM teaches is bad. Its not. SOME of his techniques, used on SOME dogs are quite effective. He occasionally makes good points. The problem is that a fair bit of what he DOES, is NOT a good thing.
One of the message boards I frequent is specifically for the owners, breeders, and other folks who enjoy, mastiffs and mastiff type breeds.
We have a member with a severely human aggressive Cane Corso. And before someone states that’s a repetitive statement, no actually, its not. But this dog was mistreated as a youngster and so now will only tolerate her new owner. And she appears to have actually bonded with her new owner, something that is fairly amazing considering her back ground. Her aggression towards other humans appears to be mostly fear based, and she has some other fear issues with a variety of things. Her owner has been slowly working to get her to tolerate cars, for example, in hopes that if he can get her to tolerate cars without being drugged to the gills then maybe he can expand the realm of whats possible. He’s had trouble finding a trainer who’s got experience with fear reactive LARGE dogs. But he IS making progress. Its slow. But it helps that his sole goal is to simply have her not lunging at strangers if they get to close. He doesn’t need her to be a love bug, he just wants her tolerant.
We have another member who’s a big CM fan. And so this CM fan wanders through the thread where the above guy is posting on his progress, and tells him that he just needs to alpha roll his dog to show her who’s boss and all will be fine. I managed to refrain from hitting the roof, but did advise him that alpha rolling a human aggressive dog was a really bad idea….
And see, that’s my first problem with CM. And alot of other trainers to be honest. Alpha rolling, as defined by these folks, is forcing the dog onto his side or stomach in response to bad behavior. Its based on some rather outdated understandings of how wolves work in packs.
Unfortunately that is NOT what a real alpha roll is. A real alpha roll the “dominant” dog does not in anyway force the “submissive” dog to submit. The “submissive” dog rolls himself over, showing his belly in an apology. Its an “ooops, I didn’t mean it, sorry!” offered voluntarily by the “submissive” dog. All that forcing your dog onto his side or back does is show you’re a bigger bully than he is. Now yes, with some dogs, they do calm down when you do that, if that’s what your dog does that cool, consider yourself lucky. But many dogs do NOT calm down when that is done to them, they infact consider it a challenge that must be met. Or in the case of an already fearful dog it can result in the dog becoming fearful of their owner who just proved them-self to be a big bully, and when the dog has already shown a tendency towards fear aggression……
My 2nd problem with CM, is shown in this video:
And since I’m to lazy to type out all that’s wrong please read here where someone else said it better than I would anyway. Suffice to say that this isn’t the only time CM has badly mis-read a dog’s body language, it just doesn’t always end up in a bite.
My 3rd problem with CM:
First he’s showing a perfect example of how NOT to use a choke collar. He never releases it fully, the dog is constantly struggling because CM is constantly restricting the dog’s airflow and jerking on his neck. Then, he kicks the dog, more than once, to elicit a response from the dog. Watch his feet closely, he likes to use the foot furthest from the dog to do it, kicking behind him into the dog’s gut. And then when the dog reacts he chokes him some more. And then he chokes the dog until the dog collapses. His excuse: the dog was fighting me, he was trying to bite me. You know what? Every single living thing on this planet would fight and bite if someone dropped a noose around its neck and cut off the air supply. If you or I choked our dogs to unconsciousness and the animal cruelty folks found out we’d be up on charges in a heart beat. But its CM, he was training the dog, it’s ok.
There….hopefully I have it out of my system so now I can go be polite to the CM fan on the message board instead of telling them just what I think of their animal abusing god…..oh wait, maybe not.
NY’s Secure Ammunition and Firearms Enforcement Act
Update 5:30pm: NYS Assembly Passes Gun Control Bill (holy shit, I’m front page on Google for searches for the text of the act, I’m getting hits from DOD, DHS, FAA, State and County level government offices…..)
Someone remind me why I live in NY?
Somewhere in the middle of nowhere in the mountains in VT or NH is looking better and better….
Edit: its 11am same day. I just doubled my average daily hits just from people hitting this post. Almost all of them coming in from a search engine looking for information on this act. Am I the only person out there linking to the actual text of this today?
Dean & Tyler has horrid customer service: A review of my experience ordering from them
The Dean & Tyler who sells products for canines in case there’s more than one company by that name.
On 12/4/2012 I ordered a muzzle for Arty (long post coming on that, if I ever get the energy).
It shipped on 12/6/2012. Nice and quick. And I had it by that Friday.
Saturday, in the process of training him to not consider it a bad thing I realized I’d screwed up the order somehow. The whole point of a basket muzzle is that you can feed and water the dog through it, but he couldn’t open his mouth wide enough to do so. So we re-measured him and got the same measurements as the first time. So I double checked the muzzle I’d ordered. Sure enough I’d ordered the wrong size. My fault. But hey, D&T offers a service where you can email them your dog’s measurements and a picture and they’ll help you determine the right size/style of muzzle, oh, and put “urgent” in the subject if you need help in a hurry.
So Sunday 12/9/2012 I emailed, with URGENT in the subject line, asking for help fitting the muzzle so I could return/exchange the one I’d miss-ordered.
Wednesday 12/12/2012 I’d not heard from them so I called. Was informed by a “Lissette” that the sizing folks only worked over email, but if I’d forward my email to her she’d make sure they got it. So I forwarded it. She emailed back asking me a couple questions about the measurements, which I responded to.
Friday 12/14/2012 I’d still not heard back about what size might fit him better…..I was starting to get a little peeved. I sat back down with his measurements, and the measurements listed for the muzzle sizes and styles and finally settled on one that other than being to long should fit him better. I looked up the returns/exchange process info and it says to email with your order number in the subject line along with whether you want an exchange or return. Oh goody, I bet I can guess whats going to happen here.
Thursday 12/20/2012 I got an (probly automated) email from D&T asking me to rate my experience with them and the product I bought. So I did. One star all the way baby…..
Today is 12/21/2012. I have heard back from neither the sizing folks nor the returns/exchange folks. Its not like I’m ordering a muzzle cause its a cute fashion accessory…..I know all this took place the last few weeks before Christmas, and that they were probly extra busy. I work for a very small company that does online retail (smaller than D&T). We were swamped the last couple weeks. Thats normal. You know what? We still found time to call back customers who had questions or needed to return items……
WTF advertisers!
All I wanted to do was check Weather.com’s forecast for my weekend.
Type in the address….page loads….and before I can EVEN MOVE MY MOUSE the whole screen is taken over with an advertisement.
Arg.
Find the little “close ad” option. Close it, type in my zipcode. Page loads…..and before I can EVEN MOVE MY MOUSE the whole screen is taken over with an advertisement, AGAIN.
ARG!
Find the little “close ad” option. Scroll down the page looking for the 5 day forecast since that’s apparently no longer the point of Weather.com and I have to go in search of it instead of having it front and center. Click on it…….
Page loads…..and before I can EVEN MOVE MY MOUSE the whole screen is taken over with an advertisement……..
WTF!!!!
Different ads for different companies every time too.
I knew there was a reason I mostly used local news channel’s webpages for my weather searching, but seriously, WTF?!
Time to go download some ebooks
Baen has finally worked a deal with Amazon to carry their books. Parts of that deal are going to result in changes to the Webscriptions, Free Online Library, and Book CDs.
I don’t really blame them, the reasoning makes sense, for their authors and for themselves. But DAMMIT!
Sigh. Time to go mass download ebooks and CD files…..
Trying to explain
I spent far to long on Facebook yesterday, trying to explain to someone, who I barely know, that its not that I love my guns. Its that I’m to aware of human nature to be willing to not have them.
You restrict access to guns then the bad guys will illegally import them.
You restrict access to guns even further then the bad guys will find other weapons to use. Like knives, or bombs, or bats, or their bare hands.
She did at least stop insisting that Isreal didn’t have mass school killings after the 2nd link…..
Been busy
Just in case it wasn’t obvious or anything.
Just before Halloween Husband got sick with a nasty respiratory virus, and spent a week out of work.
He came back to work just in time to get slammed with the overtime that results when you work for a major tele-communications company who’s the big dog on the area hit by a major hurricane. He’s been working 10 and 12 hour days, 6 days a week, since. And no, those hours aren’t negotiable. The pay’s nice, but it would be nice to be able to see him for more than 5 minutes in the morning and evening.
Apollo’s first ever dog show (and my first ever dog show as a handler) was just over a week ago.
And in between all that I’ve been doing all the chores and what not that Husband usually does cause he’s never home now.
Gripe grumble…..
I guess its time
to look up Canton OH on the map and make sure I know where it is so any future travels through that state can avoid that particular town.
Windows updates—-computers suck
Its times like this that make me wonder why I’m still using Windows…
Installed a bunch of updates and rebooted the computer. Computer comes back on and I get the icon for no wired internet connection. Lovely. The updates musta screwed with a setting. So I turn on the wireless (for research and fun stuff) and start poking around the computer. Nothing’s working. I’m gonna be pissed if one of the updates really did break the wired connection……decide to try one more thing, turn off the wireless…..and HEY!!! I still have internet. So basically, I HAVE wired internet, the computer just won’t admit it even when I’m connected via it.
I hate computers.
edit: Fixed, updated a couple drivers and found something online suggesting that some security software that does link scanning will do it, so I turned all that off (it wasn’t supposed to be on in the first place, that was annoying), rebooted, and presto, the computer admits its got a connection again!